Talking about sex is something that we avoid either because
we feel uncomfortable or we don't feel the need to discuss. Not talking about what turns
you on is one of the many problems that lead to a bad sex life. Here is a
list of things that you need to stop doing in order to boost-up up the
action between the sheets.
Taking the initiative: Yes, you are shy but taking the initiative every once in a while is a sure way to heat things up between the sheets.
Holding on to arguments: It’s difficult to
let go of your emotional stress and just go ahead and do the deed. But at times just indulging in thoughtless sex helps clear the air
and makes dealing with an argument easier.
Pleasuring yourself: Pleasuring yourself
can actually help improve your libido which leads to a more active sex
life.
Stop Being embarrassed: Share your fantasies with your man, tell him what turns you on and
demand the right action. Hiding things and expecting him to know what
should be done is just... stupid.
Spend Time: Plan out
some quality time with your partner instead of being too caught up in
the daily routine.
Trying Something New: Try new things to add some spice to your sex life.
Morning sex, sex in the car... anything!
Stop saying no: Are you not in the mood?
Well, desire increases during
foreplay and you’ll find yourself feeling much more aroused.
Foreplay: It’s only natural to focus all your
energies on reaching the big O, however the emphasis should also be on
feeling good. Spend some time indulging in a massage session before you
do the deed.
