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Flirting is an acquired talent. Not everyone is talented enough to showcase this skill successfully. That is why, very often your cheesy pickup lines and sleazy comments fail to work and impress the ladies. Your actions maybe misread and your suggestions might get misinterpreted, all this happens because you are sending out the wrong signals. Here are some basic rules that are going to turn you down on a gentleman’s path. So, flirt like a true gentleman and win over your lady.
Be Civalrous
Every woman dreams of finding a gentleman. Chivalry and courtesy are
qualities every woman searches for in her man. So, be a gentleman and
treat your girl with respect. Get ready to open doors for her, pull out
her chair and call her cab. Buy her a small present (nothing too big or
expensive) to show that you care for her. Also, do not be a miser,
always take the first initiative to pick-up the check on your date.
Learn the art of whispering your words softly and intelligently.
Drop Her her home
Always offer to drop your lady home, especially if it is night-time.
Even if you do not own a car, still accompany her to her place. Walk her
to her doorsteps, but never invite yourself in, until she asks you.
After this comes an important decision that will define your
relationship- whether you land a friendly kiss on her cheek or approach
her for a passionate embrace. Be observant enough to see and read her
signs. Be careful, because you don't want to get your signals mixed-up.
And, if not sure, walk away (better to be safe than sorry).
Groom Yourself
It is very important for a girl that her guy should not only be
well-mannered but well-groomed as well. So, think before you turn into
an obnoxious drunk slob or a smoking machine. Your bad habits can
seriously turn-off any woman. Girls also prefer men who smell nice and
who look sharp. Pick-out a good perfume for your night with the lady
(but don’t even dream of slathering yourself in a feminine fragrance).
Look smart and sharp always. You don't want to leave a shabby impression
on your girl.
Mind Your Social atiquettes!!
There cannot be anything more irritating than a shrill cell phone ring,
while you are making a move on the girl. And, there cannot be anything
more boring than a man who is over-occupied with his calls while he is
out on a date. Also, don’t be desperate to display your dating life on
the social networking. Slowly chew your way into her social life. You
need to make a girl feel comfortable by impressing her with your
conversation and sense of humour.
No need to act desperate!!
Your approach towards her will mark the difference between - “Oh! He is
just some guy I knew” and “The guy I really want to know.” If you have
serious plans about her then be careful not to move too fast, otherwise
you will be branded as desperate. Show your respect towards her and
stick to your boundaries.Source - BollywoodShaadies
Every girl likes a guy who is interesting, polite and who
has a good sense of humour. So, mind your manners and groom yourself to
charm your way into any lady’s heart!
