She loves massages and she loves sex, so wouldn't it be spectacular if you could combine the two acts and create a night that she won't soon forget? Whether you want to add a little spice to a fizzling romance or you're looking for a way to impress a new lover, a sensual massage is your one-way ticket to Pleasureville.
Many men think of this wonderful fusion of intimate acts, but they seldom step up to the plate. They either fear rejection or they aren't sure how to initiate a sensual massage. The truth is that most women are very receptive to a massage, but how receptive your woman will be to a sensual massage depends heavily on her mood. You can help by starting with a regular massage and easing your way into a more intimate affair. Here's how to get started.
Prepare
Before you get started, you'll need some items apart from your hands and a body to put them on. To help you maximize her enjoyment of the evening's entertainment, make sure you invest in baby wipes, massage oil or lotion that is safe for internal use, a blindfold, and a towel.
As well, there are some things you need to think about before you jump right into the sensual massage:
Your hands must be clean and your nails trimmed.
Your hands should be warm.
Never apply the oil or lotion directly onto her body; place a good amount in your hands, rub them together, and then begin the massage.
Start out with a light touch; your objective is to arouse her, not bruise her.
Give her a full-body sensual massage
This doesn't mean that you should attempt the tedious task of massaging every square inch of her body. Rather, give her a sensual massage with your body. Your hands aren't your only tools; make good use of your oiled arms, chest and stomach.
If you don't think that she'll fully appreciate your torso, feel free to put your mouth and tongue into the sensual massage mix instead. Kissing, licking and warm breath on flesh are usually welcomed with an erotic response.
Use your hands in different capacities
While you use one hand to caress her body, use the other to explore her on the inside. In particular, find her G-spot with your finger and bring her to an earth-shattering climax. This would be an ideal time to incorporate the blindfold, as removing one of her senses will increase the stimulation she'll feel from your sensual massage.
When you're giving her a sensual massage, reach all the important zones
Head to the erogenous zones
We all know the parts of a woman's body that get the most attention. Areas like the vagina, nipples and feet are targeted because men often don't know that a woman can be aroused in other locations. Her wrists, fingers, ears, the back of her neck, and the insides of her elbows and knees are probably visited as often as tourists travel to Iraq. Feel free to rub, kiss, lick, and even nibble on these neglected regions. She will feel appreciated, and thus aroused, by your attention to detail. Remember to take your time and read her body language.
However, don't neglect her most important arousal areas, such as her clitoris, breasts and labia. She's accustomed to having these areas stimulated, so she probably expects them to get some of your attention.
Give her a sensual bath
A sensual massage need not be limited to land lovers. If the oil has become too much for you, you can give her a sensual bath. Simply fill the tub with some warm water and bubbles, blindfold her and put her in the bath. You have the option of getting in with her, but you'll likely have more freedom to maneuver and focus on the task if you stay out.
If you wanted to increase the ambiance, you can light some candles and burn some incense. Rub her body, stimulate her insides and glide your hands all over her until both of you can no longer take it. Remember that your ultimate goal is to get her to jump out of the bath and run for the bedroom, where the two of you can get on to greener pastures.
get your rub on
The art of massage, and particularly sensual massage, has taken a backseat when it comes to sex. Be an original lover and give her a night that she will want to repeat. Remember that if you treat her to this, chances are that she'll repay you with a little favor that you'll greatly appreciate.
