We all have heard that marriages are made in heaven, but of course
making them work is left to us. In a world, where relationships are
getting weaker day by day and the institution of marriage is no longer
that holy, marriages that last a lifetime are sure to be applauded. More
importantly one must learn from them. Here are a few lessons to help
you keep your marriage a long standing love affair.
Tolerance and Understanding
A couple should have a tolerance level towards each other to make their marriage last. Strong understanding, compassion and sacrifice by both the husband and wife are necessary to keep the bond intact.
Forgiveness is the key
Every relationship has got its own ups and down. Everybody makes mistakes. It is necessary for the relationship to last, that the couple can forgive each other for such mistakes. One must have the ability to forgive their partner and sort out these issues by talking it out clearly among them. The guilty one should also not hesitate in saying sorry. An emotional connection will only be set up if a true level of trust is reached.
Planning for holidays
Spending quality time together is a must in making the bond stronger. Going out on holidays and having fun together helps in building a connection and camaraderie between the partners. Even in today’s busy-buzzy world a couple should always take out time to be together and give the beautiful relationship enough time to bond well.
Getting intimate
Intimacy is the key to love. It is necessary to have physical contact to make the marriage a happy one. Apart from sexual relationship, intimacy in day to day life is also required. A gentle touch or a warm hug from your partner can easily dissolve stress from your life and help you to lead a healthy one.
Surprise elements must be present
Monotony is the killer of relationships. An urge to give your spouse a pleasant surprise is always helpful in keeping fun and spontaneity alive. It helps break the dull routine of a married life and also makes a couple trust each other more.
